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Carey French

Carey FrenchCarey French | Consent is EcoSexy!

Hi, I’m Carey French, a facilitator, educator and community member in Seattle, WA.

When I first learned about consent culture, it shifted my entire world. I was introduced to a new way of looking at my relationships, a new way of approaching sexual partners, and a new way of fighting rape culture. I started teaching workshops in the spring of 2014 and I haven’t stopped!

My work is grounded in inquiry, integrity, playfulness, and reflection. In a safe container to step close to our edges, we can examine the ways our culture has imprinted us in order to change our patterns and develop our understanding of ourselves. My workshops invite a somatic awareness of consent as it is present in our bodies. When we practice new skills to come into alignment with our needs and desires while respecting others boundaries, we grow into powerful agents of change.

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Sar Surmick

Sar SurmickSar Surmick | Consent is EcoSexy!

Sar Surmick brought the Consent Academy together in 2016 as a way to advance consent education in Seattle and across the world. With a strong belief that consent creates a backbone for safe and productive interactions, Sar has worked with the FSPC, NCSF, Camp Ten Trees, and a variety of other organizations to promote and educate about consent. When not directing the Academy, Sar works as a Marriage & Family Therapist specializing in Identity, an Educator, and a writer.


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Tai Fenix Kulystin

Tai KulystinTai Fenix Kulystin, MA, CSB, CCTP | Consent is EcoSexy!, Sacred Queer Gender Magic, Taste of Erotic Alchemy

Tai is an identity and intimacy geek, somatic sex educator and bodyworker, sacred sexuality practitioner and guide, and ritual artist. As a student and practitioner of magic and witchcraft for over half of their life, Tai has a love of bringing the sacred and ritual into all aspects of their being. They are a student of Anderson Feri witchcraft, an adept in the Golden Dawn tradition of magic, and a practical and erotic Alchemist.

Their professional work is called Embracing Pleasure, a somatic sex education and bodywork practice based in Seattle, Washington where they provide heart-centered, therapeutic guidance for adults of all genders, sizes, relationship statuses, and sexualities who are struggling with identity, sexuality, or connection and who long to be seen. They have been facilitating classes, workshops, and sacred sexuality temples around the Pacific Northwest since 2011 and writing online about gender and sexuality since 2007.

They hold a Master’s in Sacred Erotic Psychology from Antioch University Seattle and are a Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. Their degree and work is focused on the uniting of concepts from depth psychology, sacred sexuality, and erotic neurobiology to assist understanding of the Self through the erotic/alchemical union of the individual soul-spirit-body with others and the world. You can find more about Tai’s professional work at and


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